Chaeli, Zelda and The Chaeli Cottage
Yesterday afternoon Jérémie and I went to visit The Chaeli Cottage, (his
second visit and my first). Talking to Zelda was nothing short of captivating.
Seeing the real Chaeli smile... well I am yet to find the words to adequately
describe it... For someone who has been faced her whole life with the
challenges (but moreso the blessings I think) of being a child with a
disability, she is the personification of courage and ability. I have a new
understanding of why children with disabilities are more aptly described as
differently-abled and not disabled. Such warmth.. and while still glowing
with the innocence of being a teen, Chaeli is so marture and a real pleasure
to be around. It truly makes you wonder if the able-bodied people of the
world are more not missing so much blessing of the wisdom that differently-
abled people have.
You can literally see, touch and feel the colour in the hearts of the people
who are at The Chaeli Cottage as you walk in the door. It is apparent
everywhere, in the paintings and photographs on the walls, the smiles, the
giggles and the stories of courage and achievement. Welcoming warmth.
Zelda is a fountain of inspiring stories and memories. One which is
particularly touching for me. Chaeli, according to 'the experts' was never
going to be able to write. On one of the walls are poems that she wrote, yes
wrote, and in handwriting that most children her age would not be able to
match. She proved that Never is not in her vocabulary. I dont think it is in
the vocabulary of any of the people who have been touched by the Chaeli
Spirit.
Walking into the kitchen which supplies the quaint little coffee shop area
they have at the cottage, I was enveloped with a smell which fondly reminded
me of my grandmother, whose kitchen was truly my favourite place in the house.
Looking into the pot on the stove, bubbled fruit destined to become the
delicious jam they make at The Chaeli Cottage. Stacked perfectly on a shelf
on the wall, little jars of differnt kinds of jam. All at once I was grateful
for the brief conversation between the two Zeldas (Zelda is also the name of
the guru of the jam!), becuase I had a lump in my throat and tears in my eyes.
Literally 3 minutes earlier, I stepped into a world of colour, warmth,
character and nostalgia. And there I stood silenced..
We sat and talked over coffees, until Chaeli came home and if I thought up
until then that the place could not get brighter, well I was mistaken, in came
Chaeli, in her Western Province plated wheels buzzing like a happy little bee!
Zelda truly is a mom-in-a-million. In her blog
http://www.madmomzelda.blogspot.com/she writes about the start of her journey
to competing in the Argus, at first the plan was on a bicycle, but because of
problems with her knee, she improvised, and is now doing it with a hand cycle.
Her description in the blog is not half as entertaining as listening to her
describe her training exercise, where the sound of the whirring of the wheels
was almost audible in her description! She really is an inspiring person, I
think that anyone who is thinking of doing an Argus and who may have
trepidation in their hearts and questions in their minds as the date draws
closer, could really learn alot from her courage and determination to "beat
the hills" !!!! I know that it certainly gave me alot more courage to face the
22000km!
I cannot describe with words the value which that visit had for me, there is
so much more to tell, but I would recommend one thing, go visit them, they are
at 18 Culm Road, Plumstead.
If you are told that you will Never do something, remember that Chaeli was
'never' going to be able to do alot of things, and she will astound you with
what she is actually able to do. Possible means achievable, even if your
journey to The Possible is different, more challenging and perhaps longer. It
is nevertheless, Possible!